I had an a ha moment yesterday. If you watch Oprah then you know what I am talking about. My a ha moment is that I finally realized that if people don't like me or don't want to talk to me or have anything to do with me it is their problem not mine because they are missing out on having a good loyal fun friend. It's not going to hurt me or my self esteem. If you had any a ha moment(s) I would love to read what they are.